"Look Mom, how happy husband and wife who ride the bike. Although they also rained on, but they can be quickly at home. Not like us who have tired of walking to get to the house." By: Mochamad Yusuf * One time a friend, let's just Budi, a visit to my office. He intends to create a website company. Because my company does have services like that, I have come to my office. After the business talk and even had time to look our workshops, we started chatting, chatting the other. We start telling the past. When our school first. Then he asked about some friends. I would tell him the news some friends that I know. When I mentioned the news of a friend, let's say Agus, he was stunned. Then he commented, "It's fantastic life of Agus. Now he has been successful with their own business. It must be nice to have when they have not set by the company." He began complaining to his present condition. Complaint as he wished to Agus. Miraculously, when I backed home, Agu...

In life we are often like a monkey. Because of greed, we do not want to release a life problems. We brought the problems everywhere. Not wanting to search for the right solution. By: Mochamad Yusuf * One time Zelda, my 3 years old daughter, asked me to bring candy. He was struggling with the candy had been taken in the right and left hand. Each hand has been there approximately every 2-3 candy. And she wants to take back other sweets on the table. She asked me who brought them. Knowing this I told her, "Zel, why do you not take the candies in your hand to the pocket? So, you can take others candies on the table? If you need, you can put all of candies into your pocket," I suggest solutions. "I do not want. I want to have a lot of candy," she replied. "Ehm,.. is it in the pocket still your candies? By put into a pocket, you will not be overwhelmed again. Your hands can grab the other, there was chocolate cake," I explained. Slowly she begans to understand, ...

Complaining is the ordinary thing in life. Complaining is often because not easy to be grateful for. Also because of lack of initiative resolve a problem. But what if you must listen someone's complain? By: Mochamad Yusuf * There is nothing in this world fit for a human. If during the hot weather, people complain. If the rain, also complained. If healthy, complained. When it hurts, indeed complain. No boyfriend complains, have a boyfriend still complains. And others. Complaining is common in everyday life. Complaining is often because not easy to be grateful for. Also because of lack of initiative to solve a problem. It's all because of the positive energy is not out or even arrested. People like this clogging their positive energy with negative energy, such as laziness, boredom or reluctance. As social beings, you may never complained by someone with a stack of complaints. Maybe you have heard from the spouse, children, siblings or our parents. May also co-workers, subordinate...

Hurt. Who never experienced it? Hurt attacks every moment. Young and old, men and women, rich and poor, domiciled or not, any religion must be experienced. Anyone. By: Mochamad Yusuf * Hurt intended heart mentally. Not physically liver. Be that affect feelings. Which makes the human heart rate and decide something. Which affect the heart of human mood to act. Every time the heart will be attacked by a variety of events, the temptations and desires that make us feel uncomfortable. Sometimes jealousy, resentment and even jealousy sometimes. A sad time, despair and even suicidal course. To cure this pain is relatively more difficult than the physical pain eg headaches. Caused jealous because neighbors have a new TV, is more difficult to treat. Then how? I have made some recipes to treat hurt. Maybe not efective for some person. However, powerful enough for others. Because the heart is not able to be seen, felt and detected. Not so easily diagnosed. This recipe has I wrote in some stories....

There's always choices in life. There's always the scenarios we have do it. Weighing the options and the future unclear, often we are in pessimist and indecision. By: Mochamad Yusuf * In a forest there are 2 eggs in a nest. The nest in a tree branch. They are ready to be a chicken. The first egg said, "I want to birth, and grow strong. I want to be useful for others with my voice. I'm going to crow loudly they wake up in the morning so they back to their activity." And then the chicken eggs that hatch into a strong rooster. The second egg murmured, "I'm afraid. When I was born, I was afraid to eat a snake. If there's no my mother, I had to find food themselves. Then I'm cold and rain, not warm as in this egg. No. I'm better and secure covered in this egg. " And this chicken egg waiting in solitude. But one day the wind blew hard enough. Strong winds pushed a second egg fell from the tree. And egg becomes broken and dead. ~~~ Indeed, there...

Now I even doubt if you are telling the truth about the fruit's Zelda. Did you eat fruit Zelda to always remain happy. Because I have already explored, no one knows the magical fruit. By: Mochamad Yusuf * Once upon in time in a country staying young orphan. His parents died together in a riot that occurred in that country. Since then he felt God was not fair to him. He had no parents, must support a sick uncle. And parents do not bequeath anything to him. He himself has a disease that does not go away. Therefore he became sullen, peevish and irritable. Little by little he swore and said harshly. So that over time, not many people are friends with him. So he grew angry with God that is not fair. Instead he has a neighbor who has a different attitude. This neighbor, an old man who has several children who succeed in their respective fields. This jolly old man, like a smile, like greeting that has many friends. One day the young man's visit to the old house. The youth said, "...

From this case, he began to regret. Why he did not pursue the job he loved before? Why should always look for high-paying jobs? And why he did not want to lose his salary with his friend? By: Mochamad Yusuf * When in college, I had a friend who was working. So while studying in college, he had worked. Because of work, of course it looks different. If others wear t-shirts, jeans and sneakers, he wears shirt, pants fabric and leather shoes. I really envy see. Cool. Later, after I graduated, he was changing jobs. And I saw the previous job was good and established. I wonder. From another friend, I heard a story that he was changing jobs, because not to be outdone by his friend. So, he knows his higher salary, he would move to find another job. No matter, whether he liked in that field or not. The important thing, his salary can be as or more than friends. Continue to do so. Until one day, the company that followed was not good its performance, he got laid off. Having been married, she fin...