"Look Mom, how happy husband and wife who ride the bike. Although they also rained on, but they can be quickly at home. Not like us who have tired of walking to get to the house." By: Mochamad Yusuf * One time a friend, let's just Budi, a visit to my office. He intends to create a website company. Because my company does have services like that, I have come to my office. After the business talk and even had time to look our workshops, we started chatting, chatting the other. We start telling the past. When our school first. Then he asked about some friends. I would tell him the news some friends that I know. When I mentioned the news of a friend, let's say Agus, he was stunned. Then he commented, "It's fantastic life of Agus. Now he has been successful with their own business. It must be nice to have when they have not set by the company." He began complaining to his present condition. Complaint as he wished to Agus. Miraculously, when I backed home, Agu...

Hurt. Who never experienced it? Hurt attacks every moment. Young and old, men and women, rich and poor, domiciled or not, any religion must be experienced. Anyone. By: Mochamad Yusuf * Hurt intended heart mentally. Not physically liver. Be that affect feelings. Which makes the human heart rate and decide something. Which affect the heart of human mood to act. Every time the heart will be attacked by a variety of events, the temptations and desires that make us feel uncomfortable. Sometimes jealousy, resentment and even jealousy sometimes. A sad time, despair and even suicidal course. To cure this pain is relatively more difficult than the physical pain eg headaches. Caused jealous because neighbors have a new TV, is more difficult to treat. Then how? I have made some recipes to treat hurt. Maybe not efective for some person. However, powerful enough for others. Because the heart is not able to be seen, felt and detected. Not so easily diagnosed. This recipe has I wrote in some stories....

There's always choices in life. There's always the scenarios we have do it. Weighing the options and the future unclear, often we are in pessimist and indecision. By: Mochamad Yusuf * In a forest there are 2 eggs in a nest. The nest in a tree branch. They are ready to be a chicken. The first egg said, "I want to birth, and grow strong. I want to be useful for others with my voice. I'm going to crow loudly they wake up in the morning so they back to their activity." And then the chicken eggs that hatch into a strong rooster. The second egg murmured, "I'm afraid. When I was born, I was afraid to eat a snake. If there's no my mother, I had to find food themselves. Then I'm cold and rain, not warm as in this egg. No. I'm better and secure covered in this egg. " And this chicken egg waiting in solitude. But one day the wind blew hard enough. Strong winds pushed a second egg fell from the tree. And egg becomes broken and dead. ~~~ Indeed, there...

Now I even doubt if you are telling the truth about the fruit's Zelda. Did you eat fruit Zelda to always remain happy. Because I have already explored, no one knows the magical fruit. By: Mochamad Yusuf * Once upon in time in a country staying young orphan. His parents died together in a riot that occurred in that country. Since then he felt God was not fair to him. He had no parents, must support a sick uncle. And parents do not bequeath anything to him. He himself has a disease that does not go away. Therefore he became sullen, peevish and irritable. Little by little he swore and said harshly. So that over time, not many people are friends with him. So he grew angry with God that is not fair. Instead he has a neighbor who has a different attitude. This neighbor, an old man who has several children who succeed in their respective fields. This jolly old man, like a smile, like greeting that has many friends. One day the young man's visit to the old house. The youth said, "...

From this case, he began to regret. Why he did not pursue the job he loved before? Why should always look for high-paying jobs? And why he did not want to lose his salary with his friend? By: Mochamad Yusuf * When in college, I had a friend who was working. So while studying in college, he had worked. Because of work, of course it looks different. If others wear t-shirts, jeans and sneakers, he wears shirt, pants fabric and leather shoes. I really envy see. Cool. Later, after I graduated, he was changing jobs. And I saw the previous job was good and established. I wonder. From another friend, I heard a story that he was changing jobs, because not to be outdone by his friend. So, he knows his higher salary, he would move to find another job. No matter, whether he liked in that field or not. The important thing, his salary can be as or more than friends. Continue to do so. Until one day, the company that followed was not good its performance, he got laid off. Having been married, she fin...

Every man have pray. Sometimes granted immediately, sometimes delays, even do not come true. When prayers were answered, maybe not because it is our God hears us. But because our servants! By: Mochamad Yusuf Two brothers climb mountain. When they reached the top, very thick fog descended. They were scattered and lost. Fortunately there´s handy talkies to help them communicate, though can not be used up to the village, their base camp. So no more getting lost, they stop. They do not know what to do. But they believe only pray it can be done. They agree on every prayer will say in front of handy talkies. So they know what's prayers are being said another. Also know who the real prayer is granted. Finally young brother prayed that the mist disappeared. The old brother was silent, inaudible prayer. Suddenly lost in the fog his brother. Then young brother pray again that there is food. Once again, old brother said nothing, never heard his prayer. Then in place of young brother, seen a l...

My last Friday I have been read a magazine (not known). There is a column that made me surprised. The author of writing stating inferiority after joining Facebook. Really? By: Mochamad Yusuf* This author became inferiority after seeing old friends is now different. They are already traveling abroad, the picture that shows they are in the famous tourist places. They are already rich because their pictures taken they next to a luxury car. Became known for pictures taken with famous people. This inferiority feeling make she write on Facebook. It turned out that not only her who has that feeling. Many also have feelings like that. It looks from the comments and the incoming message. The author feels she and her friends who make inferior, are the same situation at school in last time. In fact, she helped her/his lesson, because he/she was stupid and lazy. Do you also has experience this feeling? Actually we do not know how you feel or their really situation is. Is it true that they like wha...

In the life of every human being instinctively struggled to find happiness. Therefore often have to make sacrifices to get it. The truth is that happiness is already in hand, but it's futile. By: Mochamad Yusuf * Happiness is already there in the family. Happiness radiates from a sense of pride that her family owned. Happiness comes from a feeling of respect from the family. Happiness arises from her chlidren that do not cause problems. Happiness is from her achievement's children. But what happened instead was released though happiness was held. Because happiness mistaken delivery of excess material on the family. They felt the provision of adequate facilities will lead to happiness. Buy a PSP game, giving the latest HP and other things for children. Spouses invited to walk out of the country, Finally what happened, they work hard not to know the time. Time is used as much as possible to find happiness 'pseudo' it. Time with family was gone. The little that was not in ...