"Look Mom, how happy husband and wife who ride the bike. Although they also rained on, but they can be quickly at home. Not like us who have tired of walking to get to the house." By: Mochamad Yusuf * One time a friend, let's just Budi, a visit to my office. He intends to create a website company. Because my company does have services like that, I have come to my office. After the business talk and even had time to look our workshops, we started chatting, chatting the other. We start telling the past. When our school first. Then he asked about some friends. I would tell him the news some friends that I know. When I mentioned the news of a friend, let's say Agus, he was stunned. Then he commented, "It's fantastic life of Agus. Now he has been successful with their own business. It must be nice to have when they have not set by the company." He began complaining to his present condition. Complaint as he wished to Agus. Miraculously, when I backed home, Agu...

In life we are often like a monkey. Because of greed, we do not want to release a life problems. We brought the problems everywhere. Not wanting to search for the right solution. By: Mochamad Yusuf * One time Zelda, my 3 years old daughter, asked me to bring candy. He was struggling with the candy had been taken in the right and left hand. Each hand has been there approximately every 2-3 candy. And she wants to take back other sweets on the table. She asked me who brought them. Knowing this I told her, "Zel, why do you not take the candies in your hand to the pocket? So, you can take others candies on the table? If you need, you can put all of candies into your pocket," I suggest solutions. "I do not want. I want to have a lot of candy," she replied. "Ehm,.. is it in the pocket still your candies? By put into a pocket, you will not be overwhelmed again. Your hands can grab the other, there was chocolate cake," I explained. Slowly she begans to understand, ...

Complaining is the ordinary thing in life. Complaining is often because not easy to be grateful for. Also because of lack of initiative resolve a problem. But what if you must listen someone's complain? By: Mochamad Yusuf * There is nothing in this world fit for a human. If during the hot weather, people complain. If the rain, also complained. If healthy, complained. When it hurts, indeed complain. No boyfriend complains, have a boyfriend still complains. And others. Complaining is common in everyday life. Complaining is often because not easy to be grateful for. Also because of lack of initiative to solve a problem. It's all because of the positive energy is not out or even arrested. People like this clogging their positive energy with negative energy, such as laziness, boredom or reluctance. As social beings, you may never complained by someone with a stack of complaints. Maybe you have heard from the spouse, children, siblings or our parents. May also co-workers, subordinate...